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Re: My mum
Posted: Sat Mar 13, 2021 1:43 pm
by stevemarl
Wayne,
that is a really nice picture that, kind of captures it nicely.
Re: My mum
Posted: Sun Mar 14, 2021 12:50 am
by Mr B
Fordoholic Nick wrote: ↑Fri Mar 12, 2021 1:29 am
Mr B wrote: ↑Fri Mar 12, 2021 12:30 am
I'm so sorry to hear that Nick, I hope the picture below helps in someway - it was sent to me when my Mum passed away
Take care mate
Wayne, Thanks very much mate. What an amazing picture this is. I do believe this mate, it's just so hard to accept right now. I just miss her so much. I have uploaded this photo to my gallery on my phone so it's there when I need it.
Thanks so much Wayne.
You're so welcome Nick,
I know exactly how your feeling, it's been 8 years since I lost my mum, I was utterly destroyed at the time, In a way I guess I still am, I don't believe you get over it - but life goes on and you do learn to live with it.
My advice: remember the good times, talk about her, quote stuff she used to say and remember that no matter what no one, not even the powers up above can take away your memories and the fact that she's your mum - especially today.
Wayne
Re: My mum
Posted: Sun Mar 14, 2021 11:41 am
by stevemarl
Mr B wrote: ↑Sun Mar 14, 2021 12:50 am
I don't believe you get over it - but life goes on and you do learn to live with it.
Spot on, all of that! You learn to cope with the hole, but it never goes away. But then I don`t think you`d want it to.?
Re: My mum
Posted: Sun Mar 14, 2021 1:11 pm
by andyd
stevemarl wrote: ↑Sun Mar 14, 2021 11:41 am
Mr B wrote: ↑Sun Mar 14, 2021 12:50 am
I don't believe you get over it - but life goes on and you do learn to live with it.
Spot on, all of that! You learn to cope with the hole, but it never goes away. But then I don`t think you`d want it to.?
100%
You'll never lose your memories, and I try and look forward all the time but sometimes things takes you back which is still a good thing!
Re: My mum
Posted: Sun Mar 14, 2021 4:08 pm
by mjcapri
andyd wrote: ↑Sun Mar 14, 2021 1:11 pm
stevemarl wrote: ↑Sun Mar 14, 2021 11:41 am
Mr B wrote: ↑Sun Mar 14, 2021 12:50 am
I don't believe you get over it - but life goes on and you do learn to live with it.
Spot on, all of that! You learn to cope with the hole, but it never goes away. But then I don`t think you`d want it to.?
100%
You'll never lose your memories, and I try and look forward all the time but sometimes things takes you back which is still a good thing!
You’re both right. It’s 3 years since I lost my dad and we regularly talk about him and have a laugh about things he said and did. It keeps them alive in a strange kind of way (it sounds like you know what I mean!).
My thoughts are with you today Nick incidentally.
Re: My mum
Posted: Sun Mar 14, 2021 8:11 pm
by Fordoholic Nick
mjcapri wrote: ↑Sun Mar 14, 2021 4:08 pm
My thoughts are with you today Nick incidentally.
Thank you so much Wayne. Its been an extremely tough day for many reasons so I do really appreciate the thought.
Re: My mum
Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2021 2:58 pm
by Not_Anumber
I am sorry to hear of your loss Nick.
Its a few years since i lost my mum, as others have said you never stop missing her but you will get used to coping as time goes on.
Re: My mum
Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2021 5:26 pm
by Grumsum
Nick
Sorry for your loss
I too lost my mum and share with you what a friend sent to me
"Dont Cry That Its Over.....Smile That It Happened
Be well Nick
Very Best
Graham
Re: My mum
Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2021 6:07 pm
by Fordoholic Nick
Not_Anumber wrote: ↑Mon Mar 15, 2021 2:58 pm
I am sorry to hear of your loss Nick.
Its a few years since i lost my mum, as others have said you never stop missing her but you will get used to coping as time goes on.
Thanks so much for your very kind words mate
Re: My mum
Posted: Mon Mar 15, 2021 6:11 pm
by Fordoholic Nick
Grumsum wrote: ↑Mon Mar 15, 2021 5:26 pm
Nick
Sorry for your loss
I too lost my mum and share with you what a friend sent to me
"Dont Cry That Its Over.....Smile That It Happened
Be well Nick
Very Best
Graham
Thank you so much Graham. Lovely words mate