So we have gangs of feral youths stabbing, raping and robbing... THIS, apparently, is the reason they`re all f***** up...
"Talking harshly to children should be recognised as a form of abuse because of the huge damage it does, experts say.
The authors of a new study into such behaviour say “adult-to-child perpetration of verbal abuse … is characterised by shouting, yelling, denigrating the child, and verbal threats”.
Shouting at children can be as damaging as physical or sexual abuse, study says"
Discuss.
What next?
Re: What next?
What alot of
I can remember getting a hiding from my mum when I was 10 years old or so because I swore, and then when I thought she wasn't looking I gave her the V sign. She did see that so I got another round
Point being, over 45 years later I haven't forgotton it.
Now you can't disipline, smack or shout etc so you have a generation of horrible little gits!!

I can remember getting a hiding from my mum when I was 10 years old or so because I swore, and then when I thought she wasn't looking I gave her the V sign. She did see that so I got another round


Now you can't disipline, smack or shout etc so you have a generation of horrible little gits!!
Re: What next?
And did you think your Mum was a cruel abuser who didn`t love you? Of course not, not for a moment - you`d done wrong, that was the punishment, fair does! Even as a kid you UNDERSTOOD the concept of right and wrong - because your parents were actually competent PARENTS.
Isn`t there an obvious correlation between the lack of discipline in home & schools and the total lack of respect shown by (some) youth today? Some kids are naturally placid, some have to push the boundaries, problem is that there are fewer and fewer boundaries every year.
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Re: What next?
I'm 50 now and I still wouldn't dream of swearing in front of my Mother. As she's in her 80s, I doubt she'd be able to give me a hiding now though!

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Re: What next?
I used to get marched up the stairs by mum then put over her bed and I got 3 of the best from her slipper. Dad once took his belt off to me when I had been particularly naughty. I still loved and respected both of them until their dying days and I thank them for giving me a wonderful childhood and teaching me respect and right from wrong.
I was also caned several times at school and I probably deserved that too. Didn't respect the teachers though and still don't even though I was a lecturer for many years.
I was also caned several times at school and I probably deserved that too. Didn't respect the teachers though and still don't even though I was a lecturer for many years.
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It’s all part of the plan to destroy the family unit, in particular the right and the obligation of the parent to call out behaviour they deem to be damaging or stupid. Silence and demonise the parent into a mute provider so other influencing factors are more dominant in the child’s germinating sponge they call a brain.nemo wrote: ↑Mon Oct 02, 2023 9:42 am So we have gangs of feral youths stabbing, raping and robbing... THIS, apparently, is the reason they`re all f***** up...
"Talking harshly to children should be recognised as a form of abuse because of the huge damage it does, experts say.
The authors of a new study into such behaviour say “adult-to-child perpetration of verbal abuse … is characterised by shouting, yelling, denigrating the child, and verbal threats”.
Shouting at children can be as damaging as physical or sexual abuse, study says"
Discuss.
The parent might be wrong to stand up for whatever they are shouting about, sure, and the child rebels against the framework and develops into a wiser creature. Remove that framework and they have nothing to rebel against, no family values, or lack thereof, to question. No discipline for unacceptable behaviour or unjust disciplining to speak out about. They cease to develop into evolved free thinking people. Which is just what is needed for others to control them.
What’s also left unsaid in this creepy report is…… what consitutes shouting? A stern tone? An accented syllable? It’s intentionally a malleable phrase.
I'm the one that leaves all those shoes in the carriageway.