well I need another rant after 10 years with the same woman since I was 23 I am now single again.
anyone been in a similar spot divorce ETC? we also have two kids as well.
I am F**king gutted I really am I anted to set a date next year as well.....
single after 10 years
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Re: single after 10 years
Hi,
Really sorry to hear that, bltzy.
It may seem like the marriage is over now, but you might be able to work at reconciling your differences and get back together. Then you can put this rocky patch behind you.
Hope it all works out for you.
Andrew.
Really sorry to hear that, bltzy.
It may seem like the marriage is over now, but you might be able to work at reconciling your differences and get back together. Then you can put this rocky patch behind you.
Hope it all works out for you.
Andrew.
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Been there, done that. Keep things as amicable as possible for the sake of the kids and whatever you do don't let solicitors get involved. As soon as those sharks smell blood they'll do their very best to fuck things up for you and screw you financially while they're doing it!
Me and my ex sorted out maintainence, the house, everything without solicitors.
Me and my ex sorted out maintainence, the house, everything without solicitors.
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Re: single after 10 years
what would you guys say if I said I didn't want this at all?
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Re: single after 10 years
Very sorry to hear about your situation. But life still needs to go on.
They say that time's a healer.
They say that time's a healer.
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Re: single after 10 years
It's a horrible situation you are in and like everyone else, I'm sorry to hear it.
Do you think your other half would consider going to marriage guidance counselling or relate or whatever it's called these days?
Do you think your other half would consider going to marriage guidance counselling or relate or whatever it's called these days?
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Re: single after 10 years
Yep as already has been said very sorry to hear of your troubles. All the very best and hope things work out for you mate.
All the best
Nick
All the best
Nick
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Re: single after 10 years
thank you guys
I am getting better I am just trying to work myself out I am having that little fight with yourself you know
I want her back VS it over mover on.
thing is Her mates have been on to me pretty much the next day all say the same thing we hope you sort it all out, she doesn't know what she wants etc etc her own brother had a few choice words to say about her saying shes a fool etc.
but there you go it WILL be one of two things
we get back together get married etc
OR
I find someone else and get married.
honestly I'd right now I want her back what happens happens...
I am getting better I am just trying to work myself out I am having that little fight with yourself you know
I want her back VS it over mover on.
thing is Her mates have been on to me pretty much the next day all say the same thing we hope you sort it all out, she doesn't know what she wants etc etc her own brother had a few choice words to say about her saying shes a fool etc.
but there you go it WILL be one of two things
we get back together get married etc
OR
I find someone else and get married.
honestly I'd right now I want her back what happens happens...